Indonesian Fun Bites



Have you ever thought of dating someone whose nationality different with yours? Well, I personally have. Of course everything has its own rules. Let me tell you first about dating rules  in Indonesia, just in case if someday you’ll be considering of having a relationship with Indonesian. If you want to start a relationship, you must make a confession that you love that person and you want him/her to be your partner (girl/boyfriend). If that person loves you back and your confession is accepted, vice versa. That means, you can not claim someone is your partner without an agreement in both sides.

Wait, that’s just the beginning of many things ahead. Since you probably know that Indonesia is a Muslim majority country, so most of us are Muslim. If your next question is, but dating is Haram in Islam. Guys, there are many types of people in this whole world so just open your eyes. Alright next step is dating, I think this term makes a huge difference. Most of Indonesians do not believe in sex before marriage. We also do not show affection by doing PDA (Public Display of Affection) in public places. Sure thing you can have date together, like going to cinema, having dinner together, or vacation. But then again holding hands is enough. It is considered amoral somehow if you kiss your partner in a bus station. Anyway of course there are also some other official religions too, for example Christian, Hindu, Buddha, and Confucius but as far as I know, most of them do not believe in sex before marriage too, better to ask your partner about that matter.

Are you now surprised or confused? How can you love someone and you are also not allowed to kiss them? And how can you show your love to your partner? Those things sound really conservative and boring!

The only thing you can do to show and prove that you really love your girl/boyfriend is to marry them. Usually men always take first step, they propose and after marriage you can do whatever you guys want to do. As what I have told you about dating in Indonesia, there are definitely many types of fun bites in dating. As for Indonesians, we have our own fun bites and last but not least, good luck in finding one!

Adios.

Semarang, 15. April 2019


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