Indonesian Fun Bites
Have you ever thought
of dating someone whose nationality different with yours? Well, I personally
have. Of course everything has its own rules. Let me tell you first about
dating rules in Indonesia, just in case
if someday you’ll be considering of having a relationship with Indonesian. If
you want to start a relationship, you must make a confession that you love that
person and you want him/her to be your partner (girl/boyfriend). If that person
loves you back and your confession is accepted, vice versa. That means, you can
not claim someone is your partner without an agreement in both sides.
Wait, that’s just the
beginning of many things ahead. Since you probably know that Indonesia is a Muslim
majority country, so most of us are Muslim. If your next question is, but
dating is Haram in Islam. Guys, there are many types of people in this whole
world so just open your eyes. Alright next step is dating, I think this term
makes a huge difference. Most of Indonesians do not believe in sex before
marriage. We also do not show affection by doing PDA (Public Display of
Affection) in public places. Sure thing you can have date together, like going
to cinema, having dinner together, or vacation. But then again holding hands is
enough. It is considered amoral somehow if you kiss your partner in a bus
station. Anyway of course there are also some other official religions too, for
example Christian, Hindu, Buddha, and Confucius but as far as I know, most of
them do not believe in sex before marriage too, better to ask your partner
about that matter.
Are you now surprised
or confused? How can you love someone and you are also not allowed to kiss
them? And how can you show your love to your partner? Those things sound really
conservative and boring!
The only thing you can
do to show and prove that you really love your girl/boyfriend is to marry them.
Usually men always take first step, they propose and after marriage you can do
whatever you guys want to do. As what I have told you about dating in
Indonesia, there are definitely many types of fun bites in dating. As for
Indonesians, we have our own fun bites and last but not least, good luck in
finding one!
Adios.
Semarang, 15. April
2019
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