An Option for Coming Home

Captured by Vita.

Getting older means dealing with the reality. Every birthday that you faced, leads you somewhere you never know what will happen in the future. Someone ever said to me one thing; “sooner or later, it will arrive at your destination.” The uncertainties in live keeps us alive. The history, something that we can be proud of or can be a heartbreaking memory. But sometimes, silly things that we did in the past can also be history which is indeed something funny to be told. Well, that depends on someone’s mind. Life is such a long history. But the question is, how are you going to make your own history? Do you secretly have something to say to someone but afraid of telling it or, another question. Do you really have something that makes you regret forever? Actually, there are still many questions which couldn’t all be mentioned.
Death can come to us without knowing how and where. This doesn’t mean that elder people can die soon. The fact is everyone has their own destination and time. Recently my best friend’s mother died at such a young age. I learned a lot about her on her hardest time. My best friend did cry, but she didn’t even cry in front of me. She didn’t even tell me the details. How is that possible?! After came back to my house, I came to a big realization. Surely, there is nothing forever in this world. Little did I know that her mother had cancer. This fact reminds me of a song “Cancer” by “My Chemical Romance”.
Cause the hardest part of this, is leaving you
Seriously. It is not only just a lyric. It’s an irony, well 99% is also “Das Schicksaal” or destiny. I didn’t want to exaggerate it for sure. The only one that I learn about this lesson is that, come home as often as you can. That’s why I quite stop asking and explaining myself when someone always come home very often. Man, that doesn’t mean they’re so weak and they can’t bear life. Unfortunately, most of my friends still think that way. Then again, hell of what other people think. Your parents can actually miss you too, they do miss you even if they are ashamed showing it but trust me, they really do. Enjoy the happiness that you can gain while you’re at home. Give the best smile and hug to your parents. Somehow you can also feel fully charged after staying at home for a couple days. Take it as a spirit for you to continue in terms of reaching your dreams.
There is nothing as beautiful as seeing your parents are happy and in a healthy condition.

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